Accountable & Responsive People are sexy ;-)

The topics of responsiveness and accountability that come up in dating tips for the feminist man from nora_samaran's blog feel like they apply to both men and women in the dating world - not just feminist men exclusively. Of course accountable masculine energy is sexy ;-)

"Lest you be thinking "but women don't want men who talk about feelings" or "talking about how I feel is emasculating":  not all men have to be masculine, or feel the need. But for those who do, there are ways to know yourself and offer the truth in a responsive way that are not 'just the same' as what 'women' do necessarily. Masculine energy can be deeply protective and powerful when it is accountable in these ways, where emotions are present to heal, protect, and create shelter. Knowing how to recognize and honour your own needs at the same time as those of a lover, or former lover, has got its own energy. It lets you love from a deeply grounded place. People can feel that. And fuck is it sexy."